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		<title>By: Jordan Lapp</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jordan Lapp</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Feb 2010 00:52:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Bernard,

I can totally see that. But it makes no sense. I&#039;ve almost never seen a rejection that takes on an author personally. Professionals know that an editor&#039;s opinion on a story isn&#039;t personal, and often is just that editor&#039;s opinion. Pulitzer prize winning stories have been rejected several times before finding a home.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Bernard,</p>
<p>I can totally see that. But it makes no sense. I&#8217;ve almost never seen a rejection that takes on an author personally. Professionals know that an editor&#8217;s opinion on a story isn&#8217;t personal, and often is just that editor&#8217;s opinion. Pulitzer prize winning stories have been rejected several times before finding a home.</p>
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		<title>By: Bernard S. Jansen</title>
		<link>http://www.jordanlapp.com/lame-responses-to-rejected/comment-page-1#comment-2474</link>
		<dc:creator>Bernard S. Jansen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Jan 2010 23:51:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think that in some cases rejection of a piece for publication is received as rejection of the author both as a person and as a writer generally.  In these cases the writer is looking for validation - not of their work as such - but of themselves and their life.  They will feel, &quot;If you don&#039;t publish my piece and validate my life you will become my enemy.&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think that in some cases rejection of a piece for publication is received as rejection of the author both as a person and as a writer generally.  In these cases the writer is looking for validation &#8211; not of their work as such &#8211; but of themselves and their life.  They will feel, &#8220;If you don&#8217;t publish my piece and validate my life you will become my enemy.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: jordan</title>
		<link>http://www.jordanlapp.com/lame-responses-to-rejected/comment-page-1#comment-2438</link>
		<dc:creator>jordan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Oct 2009 21:22:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@silvia Picture that fish as a novel contract and me as the cat ;)

@brad I think it&#039;s part of the &quot;internet age&quot;. I can&#039;t imagine anyone taking the trouble to fire back an angry &quot;letter&quot;. People need to think before pressing the send button in every scenario, but especially when responding to a rejection letter.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@silvia Picture that fish as a novel contract and me as the cat <img src='http://www.jordanlapp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>@brad I think it&#8217;s part of the &#8220;internet age&#8221;. I can&#8217;t imagine anyone taking the trouble to fire back an angry &#8220;letter&#8221;. People need to think before pressing the send button in every scenario, but especially when responding to a rejection letter.</p>
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		<title>By: Brad R. Torgersen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Brad R. Torgersen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Oct 2009 21:14:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Rejections are like hit men.

Nothing personal.  It&#039;s just business.

I think a lot of aspirant writers don&#039;t enter the arena with the correct frame of mind.  You have to come into this game with your shield up and your helmet on.  Let the rejections roll off.  Don&#039;t take it personally.  Don&#039;t let it get under your skin.

Same rules apply in the military.  Time and again at different stages I&#039;ve seen people around me in the U.S. Army let things -- people -- get under their skin.  It never turns out well.

Best thing to do is just file the rejection and move on.  Firing back an angry response is about 0.00% likely to yield a sale.

Unfortunately, there is no such thing as an entry-level ABC 123 class for aspirants, educating them to this reality.  So lots of aspirants come to the table with the wrong attitude and get their feelings hurt too quickly, and then it sort of all goes downhill from there.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Rejections are like hit men.</p>
<p>Nothing personal.  It&#8217;s just business.</p>
<p>I think a lot of aspirant writers don&#8217;t enter the arena with the correct frame of mind.  You have to come into this game with your shield up and your helmet on.  Let the rejections roll off.  Don&#8217;t take it personally.  Don&#8217;t let it get under your skin.</p>
<p>Same rules apply in the military.  Time and again at different stages I&#8217;ve seen people around me in the U.S. Army let things &#8212; people &#8212; get under their skin.  It never turns out well.</p>
<p>Best thing to do is just file the rejection and move on.  Firing back an angry response is about 0.00% likely to yield a sale.</p>
<p>Unfortunately, there is no such thing as an entry-level ABC 123 class for aspirants, educating them to this reality.  So lots of aspirants come to the table with the wrong attitude and get their feelings hurt too quickly, and then it sort of all goes downhill from there.</p>
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		<title>By: silviamg</title>
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		<dc:creator>silviamg</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Oct 2009 21:34:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This has nothing to do with Canadian versus American spec writing, but I love that cat icon!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This has nothing to do with Canadian versus American spec writing, but I love that cat icon!</p>
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		<title>By: Jordan Lapp</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jordan Lapp</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Oct 2009 20:43:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well, those are two very different magazines.

There might be a difference in short ficiton, but in novels? Hard to say, since nearly every major publisher is based in New York, anyway.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, those are two very different magazines.</p>
<p>There might be a difference in short ficiton, but in novels? Hard to say, since nearly every major publisher is based in New York, anyway.</p>
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		<title>By: silviamg</title>
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		<dc:creator>silviamg</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Oct 2009 02:28:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh, it&#039;s something very subjective. I find Canadian stories tend to stray towards more unexpected territory and subject matter. The boundaries seem a bit more flexible than in American spec writing. 

Compare say Weird Tales and On Spec and there is a difference in the flavour of it (mmm ... bacon).  

Of course, I have no scientific evidence but reading a large number of Tesseracts stories has pointed me towards that conclusion.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh, it&#8217;s something very subjective. I find Canadian stories tend to stray towards more unexpected territory and subject matter. The boundaries seem a bit more flexible than in American spec writing. </p>
<p>Compare say Weird Tales and On Spec and there is a difference in the flavour of it (mmm &#8230; bacon).  </p>
<p>Of course, I have no scientific evidence but reading a large number of Tesseracts stories has pointed me towards that conclusion.</p>
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		<title>By: jordan</title>
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		<dc:creator>jordan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Sep 2009 19:32:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@silvia I was really interested in your question in your interview of me at Innsmouth: &quot;Do you think that speculative writing from Canada and the U.S. are different? How?&quot;. I couldn&#039;t think of how they were, but I&#039;d love to hear your thoughts on the same question.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@silvia I was really interested in your question in your interview of me at Innsmouth: &#8220;Do you think that speculative writing from Canada and the U.S. are different? How?&#8221;. I couldn&#8217;t think of how they were, but I&#8217;d love to hear your thoughts on the same question.</p>
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		<title>By: jordan</title>
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		<dc:creator>jordan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Sep 2009 19:30:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Michael. Damn you and your great stories!!! I had rules, dammit, and now I have &gt;exceptions&lt;.  ;)

This is like when I said we&#039;d never accept another werewolf piece, and Mike Turner took that as a personal challenge. Now we&#039;re podcasting Silver Shells, which is an amazing...werewolf story.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Michael. Damn you and your great stories!!! I had rules, dammit, and now I have >exceptions< .  <img src='http://www.jordanlapp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>This is like when I said we&#8217;d never accept another werewolf piece, and Mike Turner took that as a personal challenge. Now we&#8217;re podcasting Silver Shells, which is an amazing&#8230;werewolf story.</p>
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		<title>By: Michael "Master Writer" Ehart</title>
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		<dc:creator>Michael "Master Writer" Ehart</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Sep 2009 19:17:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey, me too! I sold not only sold Jordan a story where the narrator was dead, everyone else in the story was dead too!
So from now on you peons may refer to me as Michael &quot;Master Writer&quot; Ehart :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey, me too! I sold not only sold Jordan a story where the narrator was dead, everyone else in the story was dead too!<br />
So from now on you peons may refer to me as Michael &#8220;Master Writer&#8221; Ehart <img src='http://www.jordanlapp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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